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Inside The One University you’ll discover our proven three-phase journey where you will see how you can heal from the past, date with confidence, and take real steps toward a godly, faithful marriage.
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*Real testimonials from real TOU Students
Meet your Instructors
Hi, We’re Jamal & Natasha Miller
We know that God did not make man and woman to be alone. But trying to find someone while balancing your career, reaching for your goals, and wondering if there’s any “good” ones left, dating is harder than ever, and marriage can seem almost impossible.
Are you worried about how to have a relationship in today’s culture while maintaining a strong relationship with God?
Do you think you’re either going to be alone forever, or have to settle for something less than you’re believing for?
We get it. We had the same questions, and we’ve walked with thousands of singles as they’ve wrestled with the same fears.
Now we want to put the right tools in your hands to overcome your fears, answer your questions, fill you with hope and help you step into your next date, and eventually your marriage with confidence and faith.
This is why we created The One University. You’re going to learn how to heal from past hurts and break soul ties, get a date with someone you actually want to spend your life with, and find or be found by “the one”.
If you’re ready to start walking this path toward a holy, fulfilled, purpose-driven marriage, TOU is open and waiting for you.
...you can only be found by “the one” when you BECOME the one
"TOU prepared me in my single season because it brought light to many issues I once tried to hide. It was a gentle reminder that you can only be found by “the one” when you ARE the one. Had I not taken the leap two years ago, I likely would’ve allowed myself to miss out on the beautiful blessing God unexpectedly sent my way...my purpose mate."
Brittany Badgett
(now married to Rob Badgett, having met in TOU)
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Our Story
God brought us together in the most random way.
We met in an online prayer group on… Facebook. So, we understand that God is going to do what He does and we don’t get to decide when or where it happens.
Before that we were both frustrated and lonely, wondering “God when are you going to send me my person? Am I ever going to get married?”
These questions took us both on different paths that eventually led to one another.
I remember God saying to me, “Jamal, you’re so focused on getting married, that you have no idea what it takes to stay married.”
This is how He started teaching me how to prepare for marriage in an unconventional, yet Biblical and life-transforming way.
This is where the TOU framework was really created. It started with our journey toward one another.
So, we know it works because we’ve both walked it.
We call it “The Single’s Success Path to Marriage”. It’s a three-phase journey that will show you how to Become the One, Date the One, and Marry the One.
The same process that God walked us through is what we’re inviting you to now. We guarantee you will discover new things about yourself, let go of things you’ve held onto for too long, and become the person your future spouse has been praying for.
If that sounds like what you’ve been waiting for, good. We’ve been waiting for you. And someone else has been waiting for you, too (if you see what we’re saying).
To your future marriage,
Jamal & Natasha
What Happens Inside TOU?
We walk you through the three phases of the Single’s Success Path to Marriage. Along the way you will get rid of old hurts, get ready to date with intention and confidence, and start taking steps toward your wedding day.
Phase 1
Become The One
Everyone knows the first years of marriage are the hardest.
Why?
Because people don’t take the time to get whole before they get married. Then they expect their spouse to fill in all their broken places.
If you become the one before you find the one, your marriage will be built to last forever.
When you have a deep understanding of how God loves you, you’ll be able to love the one He sends you.
Phase 1 of the Single’s Success Path to Marriage brings you closer to the Father. It doesn’t matter if it’s been years since the last time you’ve prayed, or you lead worship every Sunday, the truth is…
He’s been there for you all along, loving you, guiding you. His forgiveness, mercy and healing are waiting for you. You can have a deep, transformative relationship with Him.
You’ll find a life-giving relationship with God, so you can find wholeness, healing, and contentment in Him and Him alone.
Phase 2
Date The One
What is the ONE THING you must do before you get married?
Go on a date.
It’s the process that leads to marriage. But dating in 2023 looks a lot different than it did when your parents got married.
Feeling intimidated or overwhelmed by the idea of just going out for coffee is natural. Phase 2 of the Single’s Success Path will show you how to have a healthy, Godly dating life in 2023.
You’ll see that dating Biblically is possible. You don’t have to sacrifice standards, purity, or boundaries to keep a relationship.
We’ll show you how to meet good people online, too. It all starts with being brave enough to bring your real self to Facebook, Instagram, TikTok or whatever social media you’re using.
But ladies… God isn’t going to drop your man into your living room. You need to know how to position yourself to be found and understand what a Godly man is looking for.
And men… You’ll gain the boldness you need to go out and find her. And you’ll know what to look for in a Godly woman. You won’t give into the enemy when he throws a counterfeit in your path. So you’ll dodge the setbacks that have tripped you up in the past. You’ll know how to pursue a Godly woman. It’s about more than flowers and dinner. We’ll help you date with vision and intention.
Phase 3
Marry The One
By this phase of the journey, your relationship with God has become your foundation. Your confidence and self-awareness will be stronger than ever.
It’s time to work on finding your purpose partner. Your best friend. Your person. The one.
When it comes to marriage, the BIGGEST LIE is that your future spouse will “complete you”.
A truly successful marriage is the product of two WHOLE people knowing who they are in Christ. They both have a deep relationship with Him. They are living their purpose. When they come together, they are ready to live out the covenant they make with each other and God.
Our goal for you in this part of the Single’s Success Path is twofold.
We want to help find the one.
And we want to make sure you know what it takes to have an unshakeable, love-filled, godly marriage that lasts a lifetime.
Are you ready to heal, grow, and find real love?
TOU Love Stories
Marvin and Kiesha
“TOU was definitely my final stage of preparation in order to meet ‘the one’ — my now-wife, Kiesha. Kiesha and I were both previously married with kids so there was no time for ‘fluff.’ She had her accountability and I had mine. Because of TOU, we were prepared to be “regiven!”
–Marvin Richardson
Robert and Brittany
“I remember signing up for TOU and second guessing it. TOU helped me feel secure in who I am as a woman, leader, and curse-breaker. August 30, 2018 was the day I noticed Rob, with TOU as our common ground. I am forever grateful to the TOU community and founders for what they’ve imparted in my life.”
–Brittany Badgett
Demetrius and LaKeisha
Demetrius and LaKeisha joined TOU in an effort to grow in their relationships with God. They both expected to prepare well to meet “the one,” but never expected to meet their spouse inside the digital walls of TOU!
Brian and Tiara
Tiara and Brian would be the first to admit that singless is a real struggle. But, as Tiara so eloquently puts it, “singleness doesn’t mean struggle. It means being whole.” These two found wholeness in TOU, so they could come together and have a healthy, whole marriage.
Bennie and Laura
Bennie and Laura entered TOU together as a couple dating, interested in gaining clarity around their relationship and desiring to grow with God — separately and together. TOU provided the support they needed to maintain purity, and find enjoyment in the dating process.
Charlette
Charlette had been leaning on her own understanding for far too long. Her perception of love came only from Hollywood ideals — and prompted idolization of marriage. A divorcee for 20 years, she knew that she needed to submit her love story to Christ, and shortly following, her lfie made an unexpected turn.
Why our graduates loved The One University
Charae Haynes
When Jamal mentioned becoming part of The One University at the end of the Pray For Your Future Spouse Challenge, God said "do it" — and so I did! I am now a new Charae...with clear purpose. And yes, I am able to marry again; it is possible! Thank you Jamal & Natasha for your “yes!” to God
Chara Harris
I have officially graduated TOU! I received so much revelation, deliverance, and encouragement in this process. It rekindled my desire and energy to continue on in my preparation of marriage. I have recently met someone thanks to TOU...This is truly life-changing!
Marita McKee
Since joining TOU, I've cut emotional soul ties and healed from past hurts. I've come to know myself in ways that I hadn't before — I'm self-assured, confident, fully whole and fully walking in my purpose. My time in TOU may be complete, but I'm confident that the fruit will remain. Love you, TOU family!
Cherie Price
I came to TOU in August 2018 as an adult little girl, emotionally stuck in childhood trauma. Thank you Jamal & Natasha for saving my life, helping me to mature, helping me grow up and find myself, helping me walk in purpose, and excelling my history with God. My relationship with my Savior and love, Jesus has never been better.
Taranah Ross Foster
TOU taught me how to forgive, break free from sexual sin, recognize my triggers, and I began to walk in a decision of abstaining from sex until marriage; that I may become The One God has intended me to be! Thank you Jamal & Natasha for creating such a great gift. Thank you TOU!”
Odell Shaw, Jr.
TOU was life-changing. During the process of becoming “The One,” for someone else, I realized I needed to examine myself and uncover some things lying dormant in me that needed healing. This will forever be a growing process — an experience that is definitely worth repeating.”
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F.A.Q.
Can couples enroll together?
We suggest that you go through TOU individually, and then come together to discuss what you’re learning.
Can I cancel if it's not for me?
If you’re not happy with the program, contact our customer support team within the first 14 days of enrollment for a full refund. Your purchase today is risk-free.
Are the courses live, or prerecorded?
The TOU courses are pre-recorded, so you can go at your own pace. However, the Masterclasses are live.
I'm not ready to date. Should I still enroll?
Absolutely! TOU is not just about preparing you for marriage – but helping you become the best version of yourself. Your future marriage will benefit from that, though.
Is there an age limit?
No, we have members of all ages in TOU.
Can I go at my own pace?
Yes! This is the reason the lessons are pre-recorded. We don’t want you to feel rushed as you work through the course.
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