For Singles Desiring a Godly Marriage

We teach you how to "find" the one, by first "becoming" the one.

What can we help you with today?

Get

Whole

Get a

Date

Get

MarrieD


Get Whole

root yourself in identity

3 Truths to Root Yourself in Identity

Knowing who you are in Christ is going to impact every area of your life. You will begin to have more clarity and understanding about who and what belongs in your life, which will help you on your journey to becoming the one.

Read More
fear of the unknown

How to Overcome the Fear of the Unknown

As great as it would be to know all of the details of our lives, God didn’t design it that way. He calls us to walk by faith and not by sight. And when we do, many times, it can lead to fear of the unknown. This fear happens to all of us at some

Read More
Singles should know

5 Truths That All Singles Should Know

How do you stay grounded in your single season? On the days when bitterness and frustration try to claim your heart and resentment creeps in? It can be so difficult to break out of that line of thinking when it comes, but there are 7 truths that all singles should know to help with this.

Read More

Get a Date

dating single parent

4 Tips on Dating as a Christian Single Parent

Dating as a single parent can be scary because you’re not only looking at a partner for yourself, but also for your child(ren). Here are a few tips that can help!

Read More
purpose partners

Can We Make it as Purpose Partners?

It’s important to not only talk about your vision and goals but to also consider what a life together might look like. Sometimes we think that it doesn’t matter and you can have individual paths, but everything that your future spouse commits to will affect you

Read More
relationship killers

Here Are the Top 3 Relationship Killers!

Don’t let these relationship killers drive the two of you apart. Talk things through and grow from them, and in the end, you’ll get stronger together.

Read More

Get Married

too busy

Help! We’ve Gotten Too Busy for Our Marriage

If you think you’ve gotten too busy for your marriage, stop and take inventory of your life and make some adjustments. Nothing you’re after in life compares to the beauty of covenant. You and your spouse can do a lot more together than you can being apart.

Read More
pushing him away

Wives, Are You Pushing Him Away?

How you handle the things you don’t like or understand about him will determine how long you survive. Before you can have smooth sailing, you’ve got to work together to get through the rough waters.

Read More
Divorce proof

5 Divorce-Proof Methods for Marriage

If you’re having problems — don’t give up! The enemy hates marriage and he has clever ways of making us feel like things are beyond repair, but with God anything is possible.

Read More

Are you single, interested in growing with God and discovering your purpose?

CHECK OUT OUR LATEST EPISODE OF

Becoming the One Podcast!

Hosted by founders of The One University, Jamal & Natasha Miller, alongside powerhouse woman of God Amanda Ross, the Becoming the One Podcast helps you reshape your mindset about singleness, thrive in your current season, and prepare for your future marriage.

As Seen On

Hey my friend!

It feels like it was yesterday that we, too, were asking the same question you’ve been asking: “God, when are you going to send my future spouse?” or better yet, “God, will I ever get married at all?”

These questions took us both on different, yet very similar paths that ultimately led us to one another... but it wasn’t easy.

I remember God saying to me, “Jamal, you’re so focused on getting married, that you have no idea what it takes to stay married.”

At the time, I had no clue this was the beginning of a journey that would result in me learning how to prepare for marriage in an unconventional, yet biblical and life-transforming way.

This 3-phase journey: Get Whole, Get a Date, Get Married, is now what we call, “The Singles’ Success Path to Marriage.”

This journey is what TOU is made of, and since creating it three years ago, we’ve had over 5,000 men and women go through it successfully.

The same process God took us through is what we’re inviting
you to now embark on. We guarantee you will discover new
things about yourself, let go of things you’re holding on to, and become the person your future spouse is praying for.

We’re believing God for your future marriage,
Jamal & Natasha

What happy members think about TOU!

“When Jamal mentioned becoming part of The One University at the end of the Pray For Your Future Spouse Challenge, God said "do it" — and so I did! I am now a new Charae...with clear purpose. And yes, I am able to marry again; it is possible! Thank you Jamal & Natasha for your “yes!” to God.”

Charae Haynes

“I’m grateful to Jamal & Natasha for following God’s calling to start this ministry. Each stage was packed with so much insight & wisdom. I don’t know when God will have my future husband find me, but I’m definitely more prepared for when that time comes. Whomever he is, he will be so blessed to have me.
Thank you God for TOU!”

Maranda Leverette

“TOU was life-changing. During the process of
becoming “The One,” for someone else, I realized I needed to examine myself and uncover some things lying dormant in me that needed healing. This will forever be a growing process — an experience that is definitely worth repeating.”

ODELL SHAW, JR.
(NOW MARRIED TO VALERIE SHAW)

The One University!

TOU is a 3-phase online program that guides students through our powerful and proven “Single’s Success Path to Marriage.” This journey draws you closer to God, heals you from the hurt of your past, and prepares you for a healthy, whole future marriage.

Along with our digital courses, TOU provides a warm and encouraging community — both online and in real life through conferences and international Meetup groups — as well as motivation, leadership, and endless additional perks…